Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Fruit Fun

The Vitamin Alphabet 

A quick guide to the vitamins we need

(many thanks to this source: http://ph.she.yahoo.com/the-vitamin-alphabet-012430505.html) 



Vitamins play an important role in maintaining our health. Let’s discover the numerous health benefits provided by these vitamins!

Vitamins and their functions

The most common vitamins that we hear about are the vitamin A, B, C, D, E and K. While vitamin B and C are water soluble (are not stored in the body and must be replaced every day), the rest are water insoluble.

Vitamin A for better vision

Vitamin A is important for maintaining healthy eyesight and is also useful in treating night blindness, which is caused due to vitamin A deficiency. This vitamin also keeps your immune system strong.
Now, you may want to know where to get your vitamin A from:
Perhaps you’d heard your grandmother say, eat carrots and you may never have to wear glasses – well, it might not be entirely true, but carrots definitely help in keeping your eyesight sharp! Make sure one or more of these vegetables/fruits are a part of your daily diet:
  • Spinach
  • Sweet potatoes
  • Pumpkin
  • Mango
  • Red Bell Pepper
  • Liver
  • Lettuce

Vitamin B for energy

Actually, vitamin B has a big family – B1, B2, B6, B12, folic acid, niacin and pantothenic acid – phew, that’s some group! So, vitamin B is responsible for generating energy and setting it free when thebody needs it. This bunch of vitamins also helps in making red blood cells, and carrying oxygen throughout your body.
Vitamin B deficiency can lead to weakness, fatigue and in some cases you might even end up developing cardiovascular problems. You can get your B complex vitamins from:
  • Lean meat
  • Legumes
  • Peanuts
  • Sunflower seeds
  • Sesame seeds
  • Soy nuts
  • Salmon
  • Shrimp
  • Yogurt
  • Avocado

Vitamin C for resistance

Vitamin C helps you build resistance against common infections such as colds, flu, helps rebuild tissues, bones and blood vessels. Researches have proven that vitamin C helps strengthen your immune system, supports your connective tissues and even prevents nasal congestion. Get your dose of vitamin C from:
  • Guava
  • Papaya
  • Strawberry
  • Orange
  • Green chillies
  • Tomatoes
  • Cauliflower

Vitamin D for strong bones

Your body needs Vitamin D for absorbing calcium and phosphate, which in turn is necessary for the growth and development of bones. Lack of vitamin D in the body can make your bones soft and brittle and may cause osteoporosis. In addition, insufficient vitamin D in the body can lead to chronic conditions like arthritis, diabetes, blood pressure and heart disease.
Vitamin D deficiency can cause rickets in children, a disease which causes softening of bones leading to fractures or deformity.
In order to avoid this, make sure you diet comprises of the following foods:
  • Cod liver oil
  • Salmon
  • Fortified dairy products
  • Egg
  • Mushroom
  • Cereal
  • Swiss cheese
  • Shrimp
  • Oysters
You can also get your vitamin D by basking in the sunlight for a few minutes every day!

Vitamin E for youthful skin

This one helps protect your cells and tissues from damage. The health benefits of Vitamin E come from its antioxidant properties. It promotes heart health, respiratory health and is good for your brain.
In addition, vitamin E is beneficial for skin and hair care. It is packed with antioxidants and therefore promotes blood circulation to the scalp. Vitamin E oil is known to speed up cell regeneration and is used to treat scars, acne and wrinkles. This in turn creates an anti-aging effect, making your skin look younger. Foods rich with vitamin E include:
  • Sunflower seeds
  • Pine nuts
  • Chili power
  • Peanuts
  • Almonds
  • Cooked spinach
  • Cooked taro root
  • Papaya
  • Kiwi
  • Olive oil
  • Wheat
  • Turnip greens
  • Dried apricots

Vitamin K for blood clotting

Remember, as a kid, how surprised you were when you got a cut and your blood acted like glue, stuck together at the surface of the cut to stop the bleeding? That’s vitamin K at work! It plays a vital role in blood clotting. It is also important for building of strong bones and preventing heart diseases.
Vitamin K helps prevent post-menopausal bone loss and calcification of arteries. Recent studies show that vitamin K may possibly provide protection against liver and prostate cancer.
Here’s where you can get your vitamin K from:
  • Herbs
  • Spinach
  • Green beans
  • Lettuce
  • Cabbage
  • Cucumber

Plum Pinay adventures

I so love these twins. 

Every body is beautiful—no exceptions

Two plus-size bloggers reveal the importance of self-love, no matter what size or shape you are.


Stacy and Danah Gutierrez, are the ladies behind one of the most popular blogs in the country. The identical twins, who champion body love and women empowerment, have become stars in their own right, with features and interviews in magazines, newspapers and on TV.
With how self-assured they come across, it’s hard to tell that these two beautiful and confident women once struggled with their looks.
Growing up with insecurities
In high school, both were teased a lot for being “tall and big-boned.” They were called “twin towers” and “white chicks.” It got the better of Stacy, who’s older than Danah by seven minutes, and made her struggle with her body image. She became more self-conscious because Danah, who was thinner, was attracting all her crushes.
Stacy thought, “We’re twins. How come they don’t like me? So I felt really insecure. I thought no one would like me if was big. So I decided I had to go on a diet.”
‘Vicious cycle’
She started by eating crackers. When that didn’t work, she stopped eating altogether. She was able to do it for three days straight, only allowing herself to drink water. But when she felt she was going to pass out, she binged. Then, feeling bad and disgusted afterwards, she would purge. It became a vicious cycle that happened at least six times a day for eight months.
Stacy’s nails began to turn black and her teeth yellow. Her hair started to fall while her grades took a nosedive. She eventually found out she was suffering from a combination of two eating disorders, anorexia-bulimia, and she had to be hospitalized.
‘Fat acceptance and activism’
Stacy’s road to recovery wasn’t easy. She had to undergo therapy and she relapsed many times, but a turning point came in November 2009 when she and Danah were in college. They were browsing the internet when they chanced upon the blog of a girl in Australia named Frances who proudly describes herself as someone who “preaches fat acceptance” and “practices fat activism.” Frances’ bold posts immediately struck a chord in both Stacy and Danah. “She has principles she lives by that really surprised us. It made us realize that love for yourself comes from within,” says Stacy.
The two then decided to put up their own website, The Plump Pinay. It embraced acceptance and love for one’s own body shape and size, at a time when it was almost unheard of in the Philippines.
Soon, their website gained a steady following, attracting thousands of young girls and even new moms who were struggling to lose their post-baby weight.
Continuing struggles
But for the most part of 2012, Stacy and Danah rarely posted on their blog, largely because Danah sank into a depression. It was caused mainly by a hormonal disorder called Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). The increased testosterone (male hormone) brought about many changes in her body, including severe acne, excessive growth of unwanted hair and a 40-pound weight gain.
Danah and a friend would later joke around, calling the disorder the “pampapanget syndrome,” (syndrome that makes one unattractive) but at the time, it was no laughing matter for Danah. With no work to keep her busy, she spent her days at home, sulking and crying. In a recent blog post, Danah openly talked about hitting her all-time low. “I made poor life choices, devalued my worth, hurt a lot of people close to me and lost a lot of good friends... It was one of the most painful things that happened to me.”
She reveals, it even caused her to feel resentment towards her own sister. “At the back of my mind, I also thought, I have a twin. Why doesn’t she have it? But then I also thought, I will never have the same body as she does, even if we’re twins. We’re still very different. So I had to accept that.”
Eventually, Danah decided to pursue healing and found a group of family and friends who supported her recovery.


Their bold comeback
Now, the twins resurrected their blog and they marked their comeback with a daring boudoir shoot that let the world know they’re back, stronger and more fearless than ever.
The self-proclaimed body image warriors are also setting their sights on expanding their line of swimwear into a full range of apparel. They also want to create a magazine and a modeling/talent agency for plus-size women.
Danah says, “You should never, ever make your weight or how you look limit you from living your life. For the longest time, I’ve wanted to dance but I couldn’t when I was insecure about my weight.May dancer bang mataba? (Is there a dancer who’s fat?) But I know I can dance so I did pole dancing. And then during the recital, they put me in front! That’s when I realized you can really do what you want no matter what your size is.”
Stacy adds, “if you’re really happy with what you’re doing, you’re going to shine. People will look past the body shape. If you’re really kind-hearted, you’re happy and you’re confident, people will see that.”
In this case, people are seeing double. For Stacy and Danah, it’s the best part of this journey of self-love and empowerment: sharing it with a partner and twin sister.

source: http://ph.she.yahoo.com/every-body-is-beautiful%E2%80%94no-exceptions-071721422.html

Sunday, August 4, 2013

10 WORST "HEALTH" FOODS

I saw some comments under this video which really irk me. Like this one below. Hey, why are you mad? Who cares about your health, anyway? I don’t give a fucking damn about you whoever you are. Are you too ignorant to try and watch the video with a sensible mind? Do your own research on those artificial sweeteners and stop whining!  Have you heard of Stevia? You can pull your own weight and plant stevia and use it as sweetener to your coffee or beverages! Or if you want to die you fat ass, just die. Stop whining! You should be thankful for videos like this that give you education to your dumb ignoramus mind. You're diabetic, you say? So what do you plan to do with your own body? Go and have more of those artificial sweeteners!!! So you can die soon. 

"This is seriously depressing me. Okay, so not just you but everyone is saying that "Splenda is bad and sugar would actually be more healthier than that !@#$" But, not only do I not want to eat sugar cuz the health negatives, I can /not/ eat it because I'm Diabetic.. so what the heck am I supposed to use if I can't use artificial sweetners? And I mean in like my coffee or in baking (yes in moderation), so please don't say the raw sweetness of fruits, honey, ect."


Saturday, August 3, 2013

Taking care of our environment is taking care of ourselves

For decades there have been ongoing talks about global warming. Just last week I have read an article about North Pole now becoming North Lake. Because ice are melting literally turning most of the place into a poignant looking lake.

What have we done so far? Around the world, have people been actually concerned about what to do, more than be concerned about what will happen to them? Too many species have gone extinct ever since Mother Nature has started getting ill. And most of the things I hear so far is just worry, worry, worry. 



Me and my friends a few months back have started to do something about it in our own little way. (shouldn't we all?) At first we were just planning a sort of a tour, an outdoor adventure. And then I thought, what is it about the outdoors that we would like to explore. Mother Nature. And is it enough that we enjoy her? Isn't it more meaningful and purposeful if we enjoy her and at the same time take care of her? So we decided to make our trip into an adventure and tree planting tour. We toured some part of Negros and along the way, we planted Mahogany seeds. The trip has revealed so many things to me. It was sort of appalling to see people living in the hinterlands, with dry and arid atmosphere from lack of trees and greeneries. You see people looking outside their windows with their black stares that almost scared me. What were they thinking? What were they busy about sitting waiting for nothing? There were vast empty areas around them. If I was the one living in those areas, I could change those sorry looking lands into a paradise, by just using my bare hands. There is enough about the emptiness that surrounds them that broke my heart to pieces. 

Living in the city, I make use of some pots and plant some vegetables in them. Any hint of life sprouting from my tiny bit of "land" brings me so much joy and hope. Yes, there is hope in a handful of soil. Why can't there be hope in those vast mountains that we have passed by? 

Why do people keep talking about poverty, hunger, hopelessness anyway? 


The wonders of Calamansi

I heard from someone sharing about the wonders of Calamansi, especially it losing weight powers. I am still not too sure if I can manage to do it, especially when it requires squeezing its juices out and drinking without water or any sugar to at least sweeten it.

But many years ago I have this talk with my herbalist doctor and he told me drinking a glass of Calamansi juice 30 minutes before breakfast has a lot of benefits for our body. And that is what I have been doing the past weeks. The results are amazing. You have energy for the entire day, sometimes if you wake up with a headache, this amazing regimen will quickly shoo the headache away.

This video below is about how to use Calamansi for your beauty regimen. And yes, I have tried calamansi on my face, it erases blemishes and wrinkles in the long run. You can also try it on your problem areas like armpits etc *wink*

 


THIS ARTICLE IS ALSO HELPFUL:


What are the tricks to make work to the slimmer you? First, start the day by drinking 8 ounce of hot water with Calamansi. Squeeze a half of the Calamansi into the hot water, put 1 teaspoon of Calamansi zest and zip it slowly. Calamansi and hot water speeds the elimination of toxins that stores fat. Second is to alternate hot water and cold water throughout the day. The hot water will flush the toxins away from your intestines while the cold water keeps the calorie to burn high. You can drink hot water with Calamansi and then drink a glass of cold water, repeat this twice at non-meal times. The third step is to drink lukewarm water before meals and snacks, Drink them 15 minutes before you eat because it shuts down your craving to food therefore allowing you to only eat a few calories.

This is a modified version of the Master Cleanse Diet, where you’re supposed to replace each meal with a glass of fresh lemon juice, maple syrup, and cayenne pepper mixed in 80z of water.
The citric acid in the lemon/calamansi is supposed to help curb your appetite. So you might lose weight while you’re on the diet, but once you go back to eating regular food you’ll regain the lost weight in a flash. (source: http://angelzero01.wordpress.com/2012/01/19/calamansi-for-weight-loss/)

Can you really lose weight with green tea?

My friend from Japan has shared with me her secret to keeping her weight and staying healthy. She said she is having at least one liter of green tea every day. I tried it. Right away. And I started having stomach problems. I would have stomach acid more frequently. I know each individual is unique and what can work for you might not work for me. So I just decided to stop with green tea. And my stomach upsets have since stopped. I found this video on youtube and I got curious once again.


 

Nature has it all

Surely there is so much around us that we can find which our bodies will benefit from. If we make a list of all the good things in nature that serves as antioxidant, we will have a very very long list and it will amaze you. I must say that we from tropical countries are more blessed in that area. Because we practically have everything we need to live a healthy lifestyle.

SATURDAY STRATEGY - SUPER-ANTIOXIDANT JUICE RECIPE





Hello Fitlifers, 
It's another Saturday Strategy! I'm so excited for this one and I'm happy that you're in my kitchen!
At the end of this video we are giving away a $400.00 Jay Kordich Powergrind Pro - to one lucky person that left a comment on last week's video. They actually left a video response on our Youtube channel - which we will play at the end of this video.
In this weeks Saturday Strategy, we are going to be making one of my favorite juices using 2 Ingredients - Grapefruit and mint. This recipe is perfect on a warm summer day and it tastes absolutely amazing. We have more juice recipes liken to this one in the Alpha Reset, your 5 Day Cleanse to radical mind, body transformation.
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Quick Caution: Hippocrates said it best in 400 BC. let they food be thy medicine and thy medicine be thy food. With today’s juice - it has been known to disrupt medication and is highly advised to consult with your doctor before drinking with birth-control or cholestrol medication. Grapefruit!
On a lighter note, if you are looking to lower your bad LDL cholesterol
  • Increase glutathione levels
  • Detox Your Liver
  • Prevent Kidney Stones
  • Repair your DNA
Look no further. Today I’m going to be talking about everything about grapefruit.
              1. The Health Benefits of Grapefruit
             2. A juice recipe that tastes delicious and is loaded with phytonutrients
             3. A couple of other ways to prepare
So here are the three tools that we will look closely with to attain the best that we can reap from grapefruit.

Tool # 1 What are the health benefits?

Grapefruit Juice Ranked among Those Highest in Antioxidant Activity

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Phytonutrients in grapefruit called limonoids inhibit tumor formation by promoting the formation of glutathione-S-transferase, a detoxifying enzyme. This enzyme sparks a reaction in the liver that helps to make toxic compounds morewater soluble for excretion from the body.
Grapefruit contains pectin, a form of soluble fiber that has been shown in animal studies to slow down the progression of atherosclerosis. In one study, animals fed a high-cholesterol diet plus grapefruit pectin had 24% narrowing of their arteries, while animals fed the high-cholesterol diet without grapefruit pectin had 45% narrowing.
Both blond and red grapefruit can reduce blood levels of LDL ("bad") cholesterol, and red grapefruit lowers triglycerides as well, shows a study published in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry.
Want to reduce your risk of calcium oxalate kidney stones? Drink grapefruit juice. A study published in the British Journal of Nutrition found that when women drank 1/2 to 1 liter of grapefruit, apple or orange juice daily, their urinary pH value and citric acid excretion increased, significantly dropping their risk of forming calcium oxalate stones.
Naringenin, a flavonoid concentrated in grapefruit, helps repair damaged DNA in human prostate cancer cells (cell line LNCaP), reports a lab study published in the Journal of Nutritional Biochemistry.

Tool # 2 A juice recipe that tastes delicious and is loaded with phytonutrients

Recipe:
In making the recipe for grapefruit, don't leave the skin of the fruit on. In order for us to extract the most nutrient, enzymes and amino acids, leave the white lining of the fruit because that is some of the healthist things.
Grapefruit and Mint. Put them in the power juicer. And there you have your awesome tasting juice combination.
You can also freeze them and turn them into pop-cycles.
It's a perfect Gall-Bladder Detox Recipe.

Tool # 3 Other Ways to Prepare

  • Grapefruit sections add a tangy spark to green salads.
  • Instead of your morning glass of OJ, have a glass of grapefruit juice.
  • Combine diced grapefruit with cilantro and chili peppers to make a unique salsa. (Have Crystal make this.)
  • To enjoy a salad with a tropical flair, combine chopped grapefruit pieces, cooked shrimp and avocados and serve on a bed of romaine lettuce. (Show the Fitlife team enjoying this)
Need some scientific backing, credible sources.
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I'm very glad that you pursued your health!
Always remember, we’re in this together...

source: http://fitlife.tv/saturday-strategy-super-antioxidant-juice-recipe/

Green Coffee

Coffee is one of the world's most popular stimulants and most widely consumed beverages. Only water and tea have higher overall consumption than coffee. Green coffee is simply coffee made from unroasted beans or raw coffee. According to Applied Foods.com, green coffee is extremely rich in chlorogenic acid.





Chlorogenic acid is a powerful antioxidant that will rid your body of free radicals and promote good health. Consumption of green coffee and the associated chlorogenic acid offers some positive health benefits. Interested in losing weight? Learn more about LIVESTRONG.COM's nutrition and fitness program!


HYPERTENSION
Consumption of green coffee can have a beneficial effect on hypertension. A study conducted by Kao Corporation in Tokyo, Japan, revealed positive effects on mild hypertensive cases in rats and humans. The research showed significantly decreased blood pressure in both humans and rats and that amount of blood pressure response was directly proportional to the dose of green coffee. The higher the dose of green coffee, the greater the effect on blood pressure. The study also revealed the positive changes were obtained without the risk of side effects that can be observed with prescription medication.

WEIGHT LOSS
Green coffee consumption has been proved to be effective for weight loss. A study by Oryza Oil & Fat Chemical Co., Ltd. in Japan revealed positive effects of green tea consumption and body weight in mice. The research revealed the combination of caffeine and chlorogenic acid in green coffee promoted reduced fat accumulation and inhibited fat absorption, thus making the consumption of green coffee an effective weight loss product.

DIABETES
Research has shown that the consumption of green coffee can also be beneficial for diabetes. A study at Helwan University in Cairo, Egypt, and published in the "Journal of American Science" revealed the consumption of green tea decreased blood glucose levels and insulin levels in diabetic rats. The research concluded that the cholorogenic acid content of all coffee, not just green coffee, is responsible for the antagonistic effect on glucose transport in your body.

source: http://www.livestrong.com/article/296215-what-are-the-benefits-of-green-coffee/

Friday, August 2, 2013

Oh to be white and pretty

SKIN WHITENERS DAMAGE PEOPLE AND NATIONAL DIGNITY  
By Fr. Shay Cullen, Mssc

Imagine the scene in a charity clinic where a teenager was brought threatening suicide. Barbara, 17 years old, was crying out in her anguish, beating her clenched fists on the table and screaming, "I can't live with a face like this, I am better off dead, dead". She wailed and wept and the nurses could see the cause of her anger and frustration, uneven dark and white blotches had disfigured her face, the result of dangerous toxic skin whitening creams. She wanted to look like a movie star but it all went wrong.

Barbara was persuaded to calm down and get counseling and help to reverse the condition. We have reason to fear and ban the deadly disease-causing products that disfigure young people, who are feeling insecure and inferior because of a darker complexion. With therapy and counseling, Barbara overcame her trauma and was later empowered enough to be an advocate for racial equality. Those products are truly racist for wrongly promoting the white skinned Caucasian as a superior being and by implying everyone else is a lesser human being.

Whatever skin cream you use, be sure that it is non-toxic and not a skin whitener or bleaching agent. The Philippine Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has banned 16 dangerous skin whitening products containing toxic cancer-causing substances. They are suspected of containing high levels of heavy metals such as lead, cadmium, mercury, and arsenic.  “Continuous use of these products may cause adverse or allergic reactions that can result to severe or irreversible skin problem”, FDA said last week.

Even worse can happen when the dangerous chemicals are absorbed into the bloodstream and can cause skin cancer, liver, and kidney damage or poisoning. Hydroquinone, a toxic substance is found in many of the skin whitening and bleaching products; they are very dangerous and can disfigure a person's face over time. (Seehttp://www.preda.org/mailings/mail.cgi/r/preda/732551950078/annegubuan/yahoo.com/and Youtube)

Young people need to be given affirmation and positive re-enforcement and assurances that they are good, valuable, and loved persons irrespective of race, creed, or skin colour. They need a positive self-image based on good character, spiritual values and not based on outward physical appearance and how one looks. They need to accept themselves as they are, not how cosmetic surgical procedures or skin whitening will make them look. It’s what you are as a person, not how you physically look that matters.

They need help to understand that “true face” is based on integrity and comes from their belief in their own inner goodness, their abilities to help others, being unselfish and authentic and having awareness and respect for human rights and dignity.

Having "face” is an important Asian value; it is the respectful self-image, the dignity of a nation, family and the individual. It is supposedly based on a reputation for goodness, honor, and being true to your word. To lose "face" is to be humiliated, have one’s name besmirched and thus to lose the respect of others or be dishonored or diminished in some way. Everybody needs and deserves the respect and dignity due to every person.

The lack of integrity, cheating and lying, and hypocrisy are the common practice in society and  among the greatest cheats are those who make false claims and peddle false images of health and beauty. The advertising, fashion, makers of cosmetic products such as skin whiteners and some medical practitioners do the greatest damage. Instead of giving the "face" that comes from spiritual values, they have created a false image of so called “beauty” that is racist and discriminates against all who do not fit that image. We are made in the image and likeness of God, not that concocted by a beautician.

Many years ago, the "beauty" industry chose to promote a particular image or "most desirable face" that others would be urged to imitate. Their principle beauty model of the ideal movie star celebrity image is one that is slim, white-skinned and looks Caucasian. They seemingly set out to develop and exploit a colonial mentality.  In the world of fashion, there are exceptions. Cosmetic surgeons and skin whitening makers are raking in billions of dollars around the world from straightening noses, doing face lifts, eye alterations, bleaching skin white and giving other cosmetic enchantment procedures.

Skin whitening products are considered "racist", they, by their very existence, promote the false, insulting and racist belief that darker skin colour is indicative of an inferior person or lower race or connotes ugly and not attractive. They promote the attitude that "white is right". It’s a business that destroys the honor of the people and a loss of true "face", the one that means self respect and personal honor as a people. These products must be roundly denounced and people of all nations must boycott and shun them.  shaycullen@preda.org,www.preda.org. Postal: St. Columbans, Navan, Ireland.

(Fr. Shay’s columns are published in The Universe, The Manila Times, in publications in Ireland, the UK, Hong Kong, and on-line.)


    PREDA Foundation, Inc


Well, it is normal for some girls to want to be fairer. Here is another way to do it, without endangering yourself. 




Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Me-time



"At the end of the day, all we have is who we are."  I chanced upon this kicker while bumming around FB today and I was so struck by this line. I immediately thought about my blog and the reason why I set it up. Take care of yourself. We always forget that. And indeed, at the end of the day we wonder why we oftentimes feel so down, so low, so tired, so alone. Sometimes so misunderstood, so neglected. But if we have somehow made an effort in taking care of ourselves, we wouldn't be feeling all so empty and wondering what happened when the dust has settled.

Loving yourself sounds a bit too selfish. But come to think of it, it is one of the most essential things that we need to do in this life we once in a while call survival. Too many times we get up thinking about our family, our loved ones, being there for them, providing for them and making them happy. This makes us happy and fulfilled and contented. But sometimes, loving others isn't just as simple as that. We cannot go on doing so if we have come to a point where we have forgotten who we are.

I would like to stress that is not in the context of being greedy and selfish as you love yourself. That is absolutely not that. Loving yourself simply means recognizing your need to say no every once in a while, understanding why you need to give time for yourself and do the things that make you happy, as long as no one else is affected in the process. Maybe it is watching a movie alone, maybe it is going to a spa, maybe it is taking a walk along the park. There are countless of ways in which we make this kind gesture to ourselves. Whenever I do this myself, I am surprised at what it does to me. Indeed, it can go a long way.

10 Things Therapists Won’t Tell You

This is quite long, but might be very helpful. I am still hoping and dreaming that I will be a shrink one day. And when that happens, I am sure as hell I will not be charging too much. It is supposed to be a vocation, not a money making career. I can't imagine myself as a shrink getting my patients for a ride with their emotions and the rest that they are struggling with simply because I want to earn money.




1.“Your childhood was bad? Wait till you see your bill.”
Among those who seek psychological help in the U.S., 40% undergo therapy with a social worker, psychiatrist or psychologist, according to JAMA Psychiatry, a peer-reviewed medical journal published by the American Medical Association. All that talk doesn’t come cheap. There is no set charge, but therapists say rates can vary from $75 to $250 an hour. In fact, Americans spend around $10 billion a year on all kinds of psychotherapy — from relationship counseling to cognitive-behavioral therapy — according to research reviewed by Bruce E. Wampold, clinical professor of psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.
One therapist’s fees for different clients can also vary wildly, experts say. When shopping around for a therapist, there’s nothing wrong with negotiating, says Simon Rego, director of psychology training at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City. Many clinicians offer a sliding scale for those with limited funds, he says. Sometimes, therapists dedicate a certain number of slots per week to low-income clients, he says, and there are counseling organizations that offer pro bono services to veterans and victims of natural disasters like Hurricane Sandy. In other cases, Rego says, therapists expect potential clients to haggle. “Some therapists claim a sliding scale as a rubric to negotiate,” he says.
There’s evidence though that good therapy is a bargain at any price. In clinical trials, psychotherapy has been shown to be effective in treating depression, anxiety, marital dissatisfaction, substance abuse and even sexual dysfunction, Wampold found. And relapse rates can be lower with some types of psychotherapy than with medication, according to research by Steve Hollon, a professor of Psychology at Vanderbilt University. For major depressive disorders, a 2009 Department of Veterans Affairs study on psychotherapy’s effectiveness suggests a combination of therapy and antidepressants as a first line of treatment.
One in five Americans in any given year will have a mental health disorder and two-thirds never receive treatment, says Paolo Delvecchio, director of the federal government’s Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s Center for Mental Health Services in Rockville, Md.
2. “I may not have any training.”
While qualified psychologists, psychiatrists and licensed clinical social workers all require years of training, there’s very little stopping anyone from taking a night course in astrology or philosophy and calling himself a therapist. Therapy is an umbrella term that covers many professions and problems. It’s more of a descriptive term than a professional one, says John C. Norcross, a professor of psychology at the University of Scranton. In fact, anyone could advertise as a “therapist,” put it on a business card, set up a website and wait for people to call. “Seek mental health services from someone licensed to practice by the particular state in which you reside,” Norcross suggests.
Experts recommend that consumers who need mental health care turn to a psychologist, psychiatrist, or licensed clinical social worker. Psychologists must have a doctor of philosophy (Ph.D.), doctor of psychology (Psy.D) in counseling or clinical psychology or doctor of education (Ed.D.), and pass a state-level licensing exam. Psychiatrists have to earn a doctor of medicine (M.D.) and complete a medical residency. Licensed clinical social workers (LCSW) need a master’s degree (MSW or MA), and must meet medical clinical exam requirements. Licensed counselors also need a master’s degree (MA or MS) and pass a national licensing examination. The American Psychological Association, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, American Psychiatric Association, National Association of Social Workers and American Counseling Association can make referrals, as do state licensing boards and many health insurance plans list in-network mental health professionals.
For therapeutic services slightly outside the realm of mental health, though, another type of professional might be appropriate. For instance, some life coaches practice as therapists, says Julie Hanks, owner and executive director of Wasatch Family Therapy in Salt Lake City, Utah. (A life coach draws on techniques from psychology and career counseling, but working as a life coach requires no formal training.) Life coaches can be well-suited to helping people decide their next career move or improve their productivity, and plenty of informed consumers choose them over therapists for personal projects, business mentoring and creative endeavors. Many life coaches clearly state that their services are profoundly different from therapy or counseling. Nonetheless, Hanks says, she’s been surprised by how many clients have told her they weren’t aware their coaches weren’t trained to treat mental health problems.
Although it’s important to find a qualified professional, Hanks says, the degree does not make the therapist. “What it boils down to is the quality of the connection between the client and therapist,” she says.

3. “Will you ever stop talking?”
While therapists are paid to listen to a patient for about 45 to 60 minutes at a time, it’s not always easy, especially since people in therapy can get so wound up in the minutiae of their day that they ramble on instead of tackling real issues. “I’ve been bored out of my mind occasionally,” says Hanks, the Salt Lake City therapist. But there’s an upside to her only very occasional boredom: It clues her in that something isn’t working. Then, she says, she knows to ask herself, “What do I need to do differently with this client?”
Sometimes it’s the therapist, rather than the client, who isn’t giving real issues the attention they deserve. Marci Robin, the beauty director of lifestyle and cosmetics site xoVain.com, recently wrote about her experience with a therapist who fell asleep during her session — while Robin was crying. Shortly before arriving at her therapist’s office in New York, Robin had been assaulted by a group of boys who hit her with a cup filled with ice. “As I spoke, I noticed her drifting off,” she says.
Such incidents are relatively uncommon. But therapists, like anyone on the job, can succumb to drowsiness and distractions. “Patients who have seen other therapists have reported this to me,” says Mirean Coleman, a clinical social worker and senior practice associate with the National Association of Social Workers. “I have also been informed by patients of therapists who texted or played games on their cellphones during therapy sessions.”
And of course when there’s a third party in the mix, he or she can be the reason conversations wander. In couple’s therapy, for instance, it’s not unusual for the more dominant partner to attempt to hijack the session. “There are some people who are a bit narcissistic and enjoy hearing themselves talk, and the therapist never really gets an accurate sense of what goes on in the relationship,” says Fran Walfish, a therapist in Beverly Hills, Calif.

4.“I need you more than you need me.”
After a few sessions, therapists often recommend additional treatment. But insiders say clients should watch for signs it’s time to move on. “If you feel like your therapist needs you financially” — for instance, if he or she is pushing for more sessions even though you feel better — “get another therapist,” Hanks says. Although the majority of therapists go into the profession because they genuinely want to help others, she says, a weak economy can make it difficult for a therapist to let a client go. Therapists who are struggling to keep their practice afloat — or who don’t have a potential client to fill the available time slot — might be particularly inclined to try to squeeze extra money out of their clients. “A good therapist does not want their clients in therapy forever,” she says.
What’s more, even a good therapist might not be the right therapist for a particular person. Clients reporting little or no change in their emotional well-being within their first six visits for cognitive therapy tend to show no improvement over the entire course of therapy or end up dropping out, according to multiple studies over three decades by psychologists Barry Duncan and Scott M. Miller, both of whom are also licensed therapists. “You should feel that you are on your way within a month, says Miller, Cummings Professor at the Department of Behavioral Health in Arizona State University. A long-term client-therapist relationship with no early change can encourage inaction and co-dependency, he says. The length of time a patient should be with a therapist should be based on the treatment goals and progress of each patient, says Coleman from the National Association of Social Workers. “If a patient fails to meet their initial and revised treatment goals, then other alternatives should be considered.”

5. “Maybe I’m the one who needs therapy.”
There’s no shortage of patients who complain that their therapist has as many issues as they do. When it’s time to say goodbye to a client, for instance, some therapists themselves can exhibit signs of co-dependency. When Kathy Morelli, a family counseling therapist in Wayne, N.J., told her New York-based therapist that she was getting married, was moving to New Jersey and wouldn’t require her services anymore, her therapist wasn’t exactly tickled for her. In fact, she didn’t see why Morelli should have a problem going 25 miles out of her way. “She thought I could commute into the city to see her — at night,” Morelli says. “She made a big stink about it. It was very weird.”
Others have come across different peculiarities in their hunt for a good therapist. Stacey Glaesmann, a clinical psychologist and former therapist in Pearland, Texas, wanted to talk to her therapist about postpartum depression. But her therapist had more important things to discuss, she says. Chief among them: God. “I thought, ‘What the hell?’ I had come to her to talk about being depressed, not because I was looking for religion.” Another therapist she went to appeared to be addicted to her cellphone and answered it during a session. “She didn’t even say, ‘Excuse me,’” Glaesmann says. “How rude can you get?” Of course, such incidents aren’t the norm, says Lisa Brateman, a licensed social worker and therapist based in New York.

6.“A morning run might work just as well.”
A little exercise goes a long way. In fact, the effect of regular exercise on mild to moderate forms of depression is similar to the effect of cognitive behavioral therapy, according to the co-authors of the book “Exercise for Mood and Anxiety,” Jasper Smits, associate professor of psychology at Southern Methodist University in Dallas, and Michael Otto, a psychologist at Boston University. The two authors analyzed the results of dozens of published population-based and clinical studies related to exercise and mental health to arrive at their findings.
There’s little consensus on how or why exercise helps, but Smits says the public health recommendation for daily exercise — 75 minutes a week of vigorous exercise or 150 minutes of moderate activity — should be more widely prescribed by mental-health care providers, especially as studies show that 25% to 40% of Americans don’t exercise at all. “Some professionals argue that exercise is the non-pharmacological antidepressant and may work in the same way as these medications,” he says.
7.“I don’t have to practice what I preach.”
Some university programs and state licensing authorities require mental-health professionals to undergo therapy, but it isn’t universal. Utah and California are among several states that don’t require therapists to receive psychotherapy before they practice. Hanks, who does require it of those who work in her practice, says it’s crucial for a therapist to lie on the proverbial couch in order to understand what the client is going through. “I can’t take a client beyond anywhere I have not been willing to go myself,” she says.
Plus, Hanks says, when a therapist needs mental-health care, seeking treatment from another therapist is considered preferable to self-treatment. “Therapists need therapists like doctors need doctors. We need a different point of view.” Tina Tessina, a psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, says therapy helps a qualified therapist remain an emotionally strong and independent observer.
Some experts suggest consumers ask potential therapists about their own experience in the patient’s chair and their mental health. Tessina even recommends that those in the market for a marriage counselor seek a therapist who’s happily married. Others say a therapist who’s experienced similar mental health issues to a patient’s — including a marriage breakup — might be more empathetic and wiser. On the other hand, some argue that the therapist’s personal life isn’t relevant to treatment. After all, a doctor who’s never broken a bone is still trained to set one. And many therapists have a zero self-disclosure policy with clients, Glaesmann says.

8. “Your secret is (sort of) safe with me.”
Most patients assume their sessions are confidential, but there are many instances where these sessions could be made public. The records of therapy sessions could become part of a divorce proceeding or employment dispute if a client alleges emotional or mental damages on the part of a spouse or co-worker. Or they could be disclosed if there is a legal dispute between the therapist and the client. Laws also vary by state, therapists say.
If a client expresses suicidal or — indeed — homicidal thoughts, therapists may also be legally required to report that. Nor is a serious crime necessarily protected by client-therapist privilege. Glaesmann says she was obliged to turn over her notes on one client to the local district attorney after the client’s wife found child pornography on his computer, she says. “That had not come up during our therapy,” she says, “but if it had, I would have had to report it to authorities, as viewing child pornography is a crime.” Katherine Nordal, executive director for professional practice at the American Psychological Association, says the group advises therapists to provide a patient’s record only if a court orders it or if they have obtained consent from the patient.
The Health Information Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 does provide some protections for minors. Under HIPAA, the therapist must get a signed disclosure from a client ages 12 to 18 before releasing the minor’s health care records to anyone, including parents; however, in some states, parents may not be denied access to their child’s health records. Insurance companies are only entitled to certain types of information when evaluating whether a person qualifies for medical insurance; this excludes psychotherapy notes and diagnoses, which have special status under HIPAA.

9.“I’ll be there for you, but your insurance might not.”
Health insurance companies can place limits on how many therapy sessions they’ll pay for, and they may be keen to wrap up the sessions before the client is ready. Relying on insurance to pay for therapy isn’t always in a person’s best interest, says Joseph Winn, a clinical social worker in Arlington, Mass. “The insurance company will make their determination regardless of what you, or your therapist, feels is appropriate,” Winn says. If a client disagrees with an insurance company’s decision not to provide additional treatments, he or she can appeal, says Susan Pisano, a spokeswoman for America’s Health Insurance Plans, the industry’s trade group. And people can continue treatment by paying out-of-pocket. Under the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act of 2008, insurers must also provide their clients a reason why they stop or decline payment for mental health services.
There have been some efforts by lawmakers to make it easier for Americans to get mental health coverage. The Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act, which employers with 50 or more workers began adhering to in 2011, requires that when coverage for mental health and substance use conditions is provided, it be generally comparable to coverage for medical and surgical care. That means, for instance, that insurers can’t put a cap of, say, 30 annual trips to a psychiatrist for mental health if they haven’t put such limits on treatment for other conditions, like cancer or diabetes. President Obama’s Affordable Care Act, which takes effect in 2014, broadened the 2008 act to include all insurance and employers providing health care and is expected to extend federal parity protections to 62 million Americans, with mental health coverage deemed an “essential health benefit.” Some insurers treat therapists as specialists, which typically require a higher copay: $30 or $50, say, instead of $20.
However, experts say handling insurance is currently still cumbersome for practices — and that the best therapists are increasingly the ones who won’t even accept insurance. “Insurance has become so difficult and expensive to work with,” says David Reiss, a psychiatrist in San Diego. “While there some very good therapists that work with insurance, if therapists can afford to practice without having to accept insurance, they often will.”
10. “Time’s up. Here’s a pill.”
There has been surge in the use of medication to treat mental health problems, studies show. In 2005, a mere 11% of psychiatrists — who, unlike social workers and some other kinds of therapists, are licensed to prescribe drugs — used talk therapy with all of their clients, down from 19% in 1996, according to a 2008 study in the medical journal of the American Medical Association. Similarly, the proportion of patients visiting psychiatrists for talk therapy fell to 29% from 44% in the same period. Psychiatrists get reimbursed by insurance companies at a lower rate for a 45-minute psychotherapy session than for a 15-minute medication visit, the study found.
As talk time went down, pill-popping went up — a trend which some mental health professionals find troubling. The use of psychiatric drugs among adults increased by 22% from 2001 to 2010, and one in five Americans now take such meds, according to industry data compiled by Medco Health Solutions, a pharmacy benefit manager in Franklin Lakes, N.J. And it’s not just adults who are increasingly being prescribed drugs for mental health. Some 6.4 million children ages 4 to 17 have received a medical diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, an increase of over 40% in the past decade, according to recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
To be fair, the Food and Drug Administration policy states that it only approves drugs after rigorous clinical trials and that any potential side-effects are stipulated on the labels. And many people get prescriptions from their primary health provider rather than from a psychiatrist. But compared with medication, psychotherapy has fewer side effects and lower instances of relapse when discontinued, says Nordal of the American Psychological Association.
Talk therapy can be as effective in treating depression as the most recent generation of antidepressants, according to a 2011 review of 15 studies and published in the Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease by researchers at Metropolitan State University in St. Paul and Dartmouth College in New Hampshire. That’s not to say therapy and pharmaceuticals are mutually exclusive options — or even the only options. Many people solve their own problems on a routine basis through exercise, yoga and meditation, or by talking to their families or attending religious services. But a professional can still be helpful, says Scott D. Miller, professor of behavioral health at Arizona State University. “There are many paths to having a more fulfilling and less troubled life, and psychotherapy is just one of those,” he says. “Like with toothpaste, people have a choice.”

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Cell Phone Dangers: Myth vs Fact


I was horrified, appalled, cannot believe it when I read one of the comments: For years I had difficulty hearing my cell phone in my purse, so I set it on vibrate and began tucking it into bra. Many women are admitting to me that they too carry their cell phone in their bra. Sadly, a few years of this caused a cancerous tumour at that exact spot on my breast. Just straight advice for women reading this post.

Americans are more reliant on their smart phones and laptops than ever before, but many of us are unaware of the potential harm our favorite gadgets could cause.
“As a society, we have become so dependent on these devices,” Dr. Roshini Raj says, “But the truth is, we don’t know some of the long term effects.”
 Dr. Raj says that while doctors have yet to pinpoint a correlation between cell phone use and brain cancer, neuroscientists researching the case believe a link does exist. 
It sounds like some scary stuff, but Dr. Raj has tips to avoid any harmful affects. First, don’t keep your phone in your pocket all day or anywhere too close to your body. Second, use speakerphone or a landline to restrict the amount time your cell is pressed against your head. Third, and most importantly, limit your child’s cell phone exposure.
“Children are particularly susceptible to any kind of radiation damage, increasing their cancer risk,” Dr. Raj says, “So for children, you really need to limit their use.”
It’s not just radiation that’s a tech concern, excessive texting and e-mailing can lead to soreness and carpal tunnel, and staring at screens for too long can affect your sight. Dr. Raj says it won’t “cause permanent vision loss, but it can definitely cause eye strain, tired eyes, itchy, watery painful eyes,” and bring on headaches.
To prevent unwanted vision issues at home or at the office, Dr. Raj suggests you “look away every 20 minutes for at least 20 seconds, and take frequent breaks to give your eyes a rest.”
To find out if ear buds can actually lead to hearing loss, watch this episode of Daily Shot.
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McDonald's McDouble: Cheapest, Most Nutritious Food in History? No Way.


Thank heavens for the McDonald’s McDouble cheeseburger, “one of the unsung wonders of modern life.” Right?

Wrong!

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Though the unhealthiness of fast food should be pretty much a given at this point, New York Post columnist Kyle Smith has giddily praised the McDouble not only as an unsung wonder but also as a wonderful way for people to eat cheaply and healthfully. In his nearly-800-word opinion, published Monday, Smith praised the McDouble’s $1 price and pitted “class snobs, locavore foodies and militant anti-corporate types” against “the poor.” He mysteriously called organics “the Abercrombie and Fitch jeans of food,” and even challenged the notion that fast food is linked to obesity.

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Smith’s column was inspired by a recent Freakonomics radio podcast titled “A Burger a Day,” in which host Kai Ryssdal based his show around a comment from a listener (Ralph Thomas) calling the McDouble “the cheapest, most nutritious and bountiful food that has ever existed in human history.”

Oh, Thomas and Smith, where to even begin to tear down your crazy claims?

Let’s start with the plainest of facts: nutritional content. One McDouble contains 19 grams of fat, 8 grams of saturated fat and 1 gram of trans fat, representing a whopping 29 percent, 42 percent, and 65 percent of your USDA daily allowance intakes, respectively, in just a single meal. The cholesterol content is at 22 percent of daily allowance—so if you’ve already had more than one egg for breakfast, you’re sunk, way before dinnertime. Fiber is at a woeful 2 grams, or 7 percent of the daily recommended intake (DRI). And the sandwich contains 850 mg of sodium, which is a pretty high 35 percent of the daily limit.




“It’s a pretty extreme claim,” Jim White, a registered dietician and spokesperson for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, told Yahoo! Shine about Smith’s column. “My main problem is it’s got 40 percent of the saturated fat for the day,” he explained, which can only add to the problem of lower-income populations having higher rates of disease. "I'm worried about heart disease. And I hate to hear a claim like this," he added, "because affordable foods can still be healthy."

So, taking cost in to account, what's the alternative?

As a guest on the Freakonomics broadcast, Mother Jones food columnist Tom Philpott wisely suggested that you “get a pound of brown rice, organic, and a pound of red lentils for about two bucks each. And a serving size, say a cup of each of those things, would be about 75 cents.” And check out the nutritional benefits: That serving size of red lentils contains 57 percent of DRI for fiber, 18 grams of protein (compared with 23 for the double burger), less than one gram of total fat, zero percent sodium and no cholesterol. The brown rice, meanwhile, adds 14 percent of daily fiber and 5 grams of protein, with a scant 1.8 total grams of fat and no sodium or cholesterol.

But Smith responded to that solution by snarkily dodging the issue. “Great idea,” he wrote. “Now go open a restaurant called McBoiled Lentils and see how many customers line up.”

He basically echoes an opinion shared on Freakonomics, in which guest Blake Hurst, a corn and soy farmer, declared, “I’m sorry, there is no amount of marketing that’s going to make me prefer brown rice and lentils over a McDonald’s cheeseburger.”

Are people like Smith truly concerned about feeding poor people nutritiously and cheaply? Or are they perpetuating corporate, agri-business myths that help to brainwash Americans into believing that healthy, plant-based whole foods are snobbish, while fat-drenched and antibiotic-laden meats and processed foods are cool?

While the cheeseburger may cost a mere buck, it brings with it less obvious costs related to healthcare. A constant stream of studies show that fast food contributes to heart disease and high blood pressure; a recent study found that vegetarians live longer than meat eaters due to having lower blood pressure. And while McDonalds has worked to lower the amount of antibiotics in its meats, it has not eliminated them entirely—something that concerns many health experts.

All of this does not even touch on the large carbon footprint and the inhumane treatment of animals that go into the making of McDoubles. But that kind of talk is what Smith is waiting for. “Activists will go anywhere to wave the banner of caring and plant their flagpole of social justice right in the foot of the working class,” he wrote. So I’ll save that part, and let the nutrition facts speak for themselves.

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take care of your heart: forgive


"Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say they're sorry and an even stronger person to forgive."

Forgiving is one thing. Forgetting is another. You can forgive, but how to forget about the pain and what has been done to you is very difficult job. But then again, forgiving is first step to real freedom. I have forgiven too many times, and I was wronged too many times. Until I couldn't take it anymore and I had to decide to leave, for the sake of myself. I have forgiven, but I had to leave. For me, forgiving meant recognizing the fact that I deserved better. I deserved peace. I deserved happiness. I deserved a good life. And I am in the process of reaching out for it right now.